[{"@context":"https:\/\/schema.org\/","@type":"Article","@id":"https:\/\/www.dogstar.sk\/deti-potrebuju-pravidla\/#Article","mainEntityOfPage":"https:\/\/www.dogstar.sk\/deti-potrebuju-pravidla\/","headline":"Deti potrebuj\u00fa pravidl\u00e1","name":"Deti potrebuj\u00fa pravidl\u00e1","description":"V\u00fdchova det\u00ed je n\u00e1ro\u010dn\u00e9 poslanie rodi\u010dov, ktor\u00ed sa sna\u017eia svojim de\u0165om da\u0165 v\u0161etko potrebn\u00e9, aby boli zdrav\u00e9, \u0161\u0165astn\u00e9, vzdelan\u00e9, slu\u0161n\u00e9 a pripraven\u00e9 na vstup do samostatn\u00e9ho \u017eivota. Pre deti je nesmierne d\u00f4le\u017eit\u00e1 rodi\u010dovsk\u00e1 l\u00e1ska i pocit istoty a bezpe\u010dia domova. A pr\u00e1ve tu mnoh\u00ed rodi\u010dia naj\u010dastej\u0161ie zlyh\u00e1vaj\u00fa.&#13; Mnohokr\u00e1t d\u00e1vaj\u00fa svojim de\u0165om pr\u00edli\u0161 ve\u013ea materi\u00e1lnych vec\u00ed...<p class=\"more-link-wrap\"><a href=\"https:\/\/www.dogstar.sk\/deti-potrebuju-pravidla\/\" class=\"more-link\">Pre\u010d\u00edta\u0165<span class=\"screen-reader-text\"> &ldquo;Deti potrebuj\u00fa pravidl\u00e1&rdquo;<\/span> &raquo;<\/a><\/p>","datePublished":"2024-04-23","dateModified":"2024-04-23","author":{"@type":"Person","@id":"https:\/\/www.dogstar.sk\/author\/#Person","name":"","url":"https:\/\/www.dogstar.sk\/author\/","identifier":1,"image":{"@type":"ImageObject","@id":"https:\/\/secure.gravatar.com\/avatar\/e4532b7f65738965bbad8697e5bd54c0628af7bffe8d3c856885c44d86978cee?s=96&d=mm&r=g","url":"https:\/\/secure.gravatar.com\/avatar\/e4532b7f65738965bbad8697e5bd54c0628af7bffe8d3c856885c44d86978cee?s=96&d=mm&r=g","height":96,"width":96}},"publisher":{"@type":"Organization","name":"dogstar.sk","logo":{"@type":"ImageObject","@id":"\/logo.png","url":"\/logo.png","width":600,"height":60}},"image":{"@type":"ImageObject","@id":"https:\/\/www.dogstar.sk\/wp-content\/uploads\/img_a279911_w2035_t1489493410.jpg","url":"https:\/\/www.dogstar.sk\/wp-content\/uploads\/img_a279911_w2035_t1489493410.jpg","height":0,"width":0},"url":"https:\/\/www.dogstar.sk\/deti-potrebuju-pravidla\/","wordCount":418,"articleBody":" V\u00fdchova det\u00ed je n\u00e1ro\u010dn\u00e9 poslanie rodi\u010dov, ktor\u00ed sa sna\u017eia svojim de\u0165om da\u0165 v\u0161etko potrebn\u00e9, aby boli zdrav\u00e9, \u0161\u0165astn\u00e9, vzdelan\u00e9, slu\u0161n\u00e9 a pripraven\u00e9 na vstup do samostatn\u00e9ho \u017eivota. Pre deti je nesmierne d\u00f4le\u017eit\u00e1 rodi\u010dovsk\u00e1 l\u00e1ska i pocit istoty a bezpe\u010dia domova. A pr\u00e1ve tu mnoh\u00ed rodi\u010dia naj\u010dastej\u0161ie zlyh\u00e1vaj\u00fa.&#13; Mnohokr\u00e1t d\u00e1vaj\u00fa svojim de\u0165om pr\u00edli\u0161 ve\u013ea materi\u00e1lnych vec\u00ed a zab\u00fadaj\u00fa, \u017ee de\u0165om niekedy sta\u010d\u00ed spolo\u010dne str\u00e1ven\u00e1 pr\u00edjemn\u00e1 chv\u00ed\u013ea alebo be\u017en\u00e9 konverz\u00e1cia o z\u00e1\u017eitkoch i \u0165a\u017ekostiach uplynul\u00e9ho d\u0148a. Bohu\u017eia\u013e v s\u00fa\u010dasnosti v\u00e4\u010d\u0161ina rodi\u010dov je ve\u013emi zanepr\u00e1zdnen\u00e1 a svojim ratolestiam sa nemaj\u00fa \u010das venova\u0165. V tak\u00fdchto okam\u017eikoch povo\u013euj\u00fa zo svojich z\u00e1sad a z\u00e1kazov, zab\u00fadaj\u00fa stanovi\u0165 pravidl\u00e1 alebo opomen\u00fa dodr\u017eiavanie u\u017e dohodnut\u00fdch pravidiel. A pr\u00e1ve nepr\u00edtomnos\u0165 pravidiel plod\u00ed neporiadok a chaos. Die\u0165a c\u00edti Va\u0161u nerozhodnos\u0165 alebo nez\u00e1ujem a rob\u00ed si \u010do chce. V pravidl\u00e1ch sa prejavuje ve\u013ea z charakteristiky celej rodiny. S\u00fa v nich Va\u0161e postoje, ciele a met\u00f3dy v\u00fdchovy, \u010di u\u017e ste m\u00e4kk\u00ed, z\u00e1sadov\u00ed, nerozhodn\u00ed, poddajn\u00ed alebo nekompromisn\u00ed. V rodinn\u00fdch pravidl\u00e1ch sa odr\u00e1\u017ea to, \u010do sa u V\u00e1s pova\u017euje za spr\u00e1vne a nespr\u00e1vne, \u010do o\u010dak\u00e1vate od svojich det\u00ed, ak\u00e9 m\u00e1te hodnoty, \u010do die\u0165a m\u00f4\u017ee a \u010do u\u017e nie.&#13; Ak die\u0165a nedostane, \u010do chce, reaguje zlostne. \u010casto budete bezmocn\u00ed a rozhnevan\u00ed, najm\u00e4 ke\u010f poc\u00edtite, \u017ee V\u00e1\u0161 potomok si presadzuje svoje z\u00e1ujmy. Sk\u00faste nepod\u013eahn\u00fa\u0165 a vysvetlite mu zmysel konkr\u00e9tnych pravidiel a upozornite ho na d\u00f4sledky ich nedodr\u017eania.Pod\u013ea psychol\u00f3gov zvl\u00e1da ka\u017ed\u00e9 die\u0165a to\u013eko z\u00e1kladn\u00fdch pravidiel, ko\u013eko m\u00e1 rokov a mali by by\u0165 primeran\u00e9 jeho veku.&#13; Mal\u00e9mu die\u0165a\u0165u sta\u010d\u00ed argument \u201elebo som povedal\u201c, no t\u00edned\u017eer potrebuje d\u00f4vody, ktor\u00e9 spolu prediskutujete, preto\u017ee nespr\u00e1vnymi z\u00e1sadami m\u00f4\u017eete dosiahnu\u0165 opak, a to vzdor a vzburu. Pravidl\u00e1 musia by\u0165 re\u0161pektuj\u00face, nesm\u00fa by\u0165 n\u00e1strojom moci a kontroly. Pam\u00e4tajte, \u017ee V\u00e1\u0161 t\u00edned\u017eer je u\u017e mlad\u00fd \u010dlovek, ktor\u00fd zakr\u00e1tko dospeje a bude s\u00e1m robi\u0165 d\u00f4le\u017eit\u00e9 rozhodnutia. Cit\u00e1t (Bruy\u00e9re)\u201eU\u010di\u0165 je mo\u017en\u00e9 slovami, vychov\u00e1va\u0165 iba pr\u00edkladom.\u201c                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                "},{"@context":"https:\/\/schema.org\/","@type":"BreadcrumbList","itemListElement":[{"@type":"ListItem","position":1,"name":"Deti potrebuj\u00fa pravidl\u00e1","item":"https:\/\/www.dogstar.sk\/deti-potrebuju-pravidla\/#breadcrumbitem"}]}]